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Still searching...Sumtyms i seem foolish, sumtyms am matured, at tyms am patient, but most oft am short-tempered.. Duh!

Monday, August 10, 2009

Is there a way out??!!!!


An interesting thing to strike our thoughts! There were these two graduates who came home and sat 4 a few minutes to discuss about "the conditions of abandoned parents"... I couldn't resist myself from listening to them, because the subject was an issue of great importance... This was the scenario...two people, graduates, who could have simply persuaded with their jobs or probably higher studies, going door to door, explaining about grannies and grandpas being neglected, talking about how those 'old babies' are striving hard to earn a living.. people who had been the bread-winners of their family, the backbone of their family, now finding it hard to live on their own without a backbone!! Man! what a pity! The fact that worried me more is that, inspite of years of explanations about human values, our Indian culture, some still tend to pull out from shouldering responsibilities in taking care of their parents... Conversion to nuclear families...ok acceptable... But what do we call this??!!! living without parents or rather isolating your parents from you!!???!!! Though i don't do it, something made me feel ashamed... not of me but of ma society.. We, who are going to be the immediate future, need to put an end to this pathetic situation!! When 2 people, in no way related to any of the parents who have been made to join in old age homes, care to worry about them and step each door to explain it, why don't the very own children of those oldies get the same thought??!!! Why the hell doesn't this thought never strike them! Won't they ever feel painful??!!! Won't their conscience ever make them guilty??!!!

Sunday, August 9, 2009

How does it feel?

Sometimes, life is great! You wake up early morning to see a pleasant weather and you are with a perfect coffee in hand... ah! feels like heaven! You start off your day with a very warm welcome from your boss, which boosts you more at you work place! Or, you have a smashing day out with friends in coll!! Heavy rains at 1800 hrs and you are well settled infront of your window with a cup of hot soup and your favorite book in hand(maybe HP)!! Watching out the window, soothing showers, HP in hand...wow! We wish we could be like that always!! To add on to the fun, you recieve an unexpected call from one of your best friends, after a very long time.. Nevertheless, you start sharing all you remember when you had been together! How does that feel??

Most of times life is not that entertaining... A small mistake you make early morning, messes you up with mom or bro.. There ends everything.. You find a way out to pou
r your anger on your parents, to some friend of yours.. If they were just friends, then th
ere ends your relationship.. If its your best friend.. ahem...Sometimes, what you do maybe fun, adventurous to you...while peoplel who care for you, get worried of it.. How many times do you get a chance to experience unconditional love? I got it.. very recently.. It feels great..to know that a pure heart cares for you to the best.. To know that there is someone to rely upon..to know that there is someone(not Him!) who is always watching you..who is always worried about your progress in life.. Though its great, its worst coz it makes you cry.. It makes you realise the seriousness of 'life' and thats really painful!!!

The best and worst days of my life, both get cherished only becoz of close ppl..frn
ds..
A day maybe the best or the worst in your life... But duh! In my case, i exper
ienced both in a single day!!! Now how does that feel??!!!! :-|